What stress (or anger!) does to your face… and how to fix it!

Lately, despite the twice daily cleansing and moisturising, an hour at the gym, weekly scrubs and face packs, adequate beauty sleep and copious amounts of water, I have been noticing that my skin has never ever looked this terrible. It’s reached a point where strangers at the malls are asking me if I am sick and need help… not kidding!

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Time to visit the dermatologist – who takes one look at my blotchy complexion, flaking chin, dark circles and the monstrous zit on my forehead and decides what I need is a “life questionnaire” rather than a session of Blue Light. And through gradual prodding and poking, we arrive at the root cause – stress (and a lot of being pissed off, to boot), which is literally killing my skin cells.

I have always known that stress leads to high blood pressure, depression, migraines, heart disease, obesity… yada yada yada! But honestly, it never bothered me because all that’s in the future. Skin problems, however, are in the here and now! Hence, this required some serious research. And what I found is that given our increasingly crazy lifestyles, there is actually a new field of medicine called psychodermatology, which focuses on the mind-beauty connection. Experts of psychodermatology treat skin problems that are caused or worsened by stress and here I am summarising what they say happens to our complexions when we are emotionally troubled.

But remember, these “quick fixes” are just that – quick fixes. To actually reverse the beauty (and overall health!) effects of stress, you need to go much deeper than lotions and potions!

1. Dullness

Stress triggers a hormone called cortisol (a stress hormone), which slows down skin cells, making them take longer to reach the surface and flake off. Hence, dead skin cells build up, making your face look dull and lifeless.

Quick fix: Drink more water and exfoliate regularly.

2. Sagging

Furthermore, prolonged cortisol production leads to loss of collagen and elastin, resulting in slackness, sagging and loss of elasticity. Not a good beauty look at all!

Quick fix: Consume foods that increase collagen production and benefit the skin. For example, soy products help block enzymes that break down and age the skin. Also, try topical beauty products containing Vitamin C (l-ascorbic acid) or hyaluronic acid (sometimes listed as sodium hyaluronate). Skip the retinoids though – they will further irritate stressed skin.

stress and skin 33. Dryness

Stressed skin has a very low lipid (protective) barrier, so fluids evaporate more easily. In addition, cortisol also reduces the skin’s ability to retain water, leading to excessive dryness.

Quick fix: Try a weekly moisture mask and apply a hydrating serum along with moisturiser. Also, avoid using toners and cleansers that contain harsh ingredients such as Ammonium Laurenth Sulphate, Sodium Lauryl Sulphate and Sodium Laureth Sulphate, which can dehydrate and irritate the skin.

4. Skin infections

The epidermal skin cells are packed tightly together, forming a strong barrier that blocks the entry of bacteria and other toxins. When you are under stress, this protective layer becomes less effective, allowing harmful bacteria to reach the deeper layers of skin.

Quick fix: Keep skin scrupulously clean with a mild soap. Use warm, not hot water, and pat skin dry instead of rubbing; put moisturiser on immediately.

5. Itchy, ugly rashes

Stress decreases skin’s self-repairing abilities, while also releasing histamines (which create allergic reactions) into the bloodstream. The result? Flareups of immunity-related conditions such as hives, rashes, cold sores, psoriasis and eczema.

Quick fix: Look for beauty products that contain soothing ingredients like avocado oil, almond oil, aloe vera, Shea butter, sunflower oil and chamomile. Also, cut down on the number of skincare products you use –  fewer products means lesser ingredients and hence a lower risk of an allergic reaction.

6. Blemishes

Stress increases oil production, which blocks the pores and results in breakouts.

Quick fix: Keep skin clear of surface dirt, oil and dead cells. Use oil-free beauty products and wash your face gently with a soft cloth. Don’t scrub, as this can further irritate acne and make it worse.

stress and skin 27. Premature ageing

During times of crisis, our body redirects the flow of blood to areas that are vital for reacting to stress – such as lungs and heart. This leaves skin without essential blood and oxygen. The result? Increased production of free radicals and tissue-damaging oxidants, which speed up wrinkles, lines and other signs of premature ageing.

Quick fix: Try some facial exercises and massage. These help release tension along with increasing oxygen-rich blood flow to muscles, tissue and skin, making the complexion look vibrant and healthier.

8. Sallowness

Stress hurts the digestive system. This means essential nutrients are not digested properly, allowing build up of impurities. As a result, stressed skin looks dull, lifeless and sallow.

Quick fix: Step up intake of leafy greens, fruit and high protein grains and lentils as well as healthy fats like those found in avocados and olive oil; cut down on caffeine. Skipping meals is a complete no-no!

9. Inflammation

Prolonged stress creates chronic internal inflammation, which leads to premature ageing, uneven skin tone and texture, lack of radiance and hyperpigmentation.

Quick fix: Sleep is anti-inflammatory – a time of healing, when cortisol levels are at their lowest. Getting enough will keep your body’s best coping skills at hand.

10. Skin cancers

In a study at Yale University, it was found that people with melanoma – the deadliest form of skin cancer – were more likely to have gone through stressful life events during the years leading up to their diagnosis than people who did not have skin cancer.

Quick fix: Remember to not skip the sunscreen – even if you are indoors. Rule of thumb is that if the natural light is bright enough to read, it’s bright enough to damage your skin.


Would you eat cotton to be thin (the models do!)?

In what has to be THE craziest diet move of all times, 23-year-old model Bria Murphy (Eddie Murphy’s daughter), has revealed that many models eat cotton balls to stay thin. Unfortunately, she is not the only one to have brought this frightening fact into the limelight – enough models and minders have spoken about the “cotton ball diet” in the past to have us realise that this is indeed a “trend”.

cotton ball dietAnd exactly how is this savoury dish served up? Cotton balls are dipped in orange juice and then swallowed. The reason? You feel full sans any calories as the cotton balls just dissolve away after a while – they don’t add any fat or calories to your body.

Sick as it sounds, this is just another version of extreme dieting that’s prevalent in the look-good-despite-feeling-awful circles. Earlier in the year, former Vogue Australia editor-in-chief Kristie Clements described similar behavior in The Vogue Factor, but with a twist: models eating tissues to stay off the calories. Different means, same effect.

Forgive me for sounding lame and untrendy but I was always under the impression that one ate food for the nutrition that a body needs to function. Am sure that nobody here needs a refresher course in what happens when the body is starved of life-sustaining vitamins, minerals, proteins and even (gasp!) fats and carbohydrates. Not to say anything about what a steady infusion of cotton balls and tissues would do to the digestive system.

Head. Spinning.

What about you? Tempted by the cotton ball diet? What’s the craziest or most extreme diet trend that you’ve come across?

What is your body acne telling you?

There has been a lot of discussion on this blog about how face mapping can reveal underlying health problems through the location of acne on various “zones” that correspond to our internal organs. But this ancient science doesn’t end there: just as face mapping can tell what your facial pimples mean, mapping where you get pimples on the rest of your body can also help pinpoint (and thereby treat) internal imbalances that might be messing up your system.

So, on popular demand, I have gone back to the drawing board – consisting of ancient Chinese and Ayurvedic texts, as interpreted by 21st century’s cutting edge doctors – and distilled that knowledge into this easy-to-interpret “body map” of acne zones. Put simply, think of your body as a map and blemishes as X’s on that landscape. Spots in different zones correspond to different problems. Interesting, right? Try it out: here is how to decode breakouts in the basic body areas.

body-acne-meaningZone 1: Hormones

Like the jaw, acne on the neck might indicate that your adrenal glands (hormones) are in overdrive. Other options: stress or excessive sugar intake. That’s if you are not wearing shirts with tight collars or have greasy hair that constantly touches the skin in this area.

Zone 2 & 3: Stress

Shoulder acne could mean that you are overstressed, sensitive and vulnerable. Another alternative? Check whether your handbag strap is causing friction against the skin.

Zone 4: Digestive System

Are you wearing clothes that are not breathable – like polyester or nylon? Have you ruled out fungal infections (especially if you have little whiteheads on the chest that don’t respond to acne treatments) and allergies? If all these are clear, acne on the chest can point towards digestive troubles, like a poor diet, bad eating habits, having excessively spicy food or drinking too many cold beverages on a regular basis.

Zone 5 & 6: Vitamin Levels

Skin is coarser on the arms so you can get keratosis pilaris in this area. This appears as small spots that give skin a rough, goose-bumpy appearance. Keratosis pilaris is caused by poor circulation and overproduction of dead cells at the hair follicle. Try to treat it with regular exfoliation and moisturizers containing salicylic acid. If the problem persists despite this, it could be a sign of how efficiently your body is receiving and utilising vitamins from your diet.

Zone 7: Blood Sugar Levels

There are very few oil glands in this area, making stomach acne a rarer complaint. When zits do crop up here, it’s usually because of one of these reasons: tight fitting clothes or high blood sugar.

Zone 8: Hygiene or STDs

Utterly painful and pretty difficult to clear up because of this area’s high moistness factor, crotch or pelvic acne could crop up because of ingrown hairs from waxing or shaving. Then again, poor personal hygiene might play a role. More worryingly though, it could be warts or the symptom of an STD (especially if the spots itch, ooze or don’t show any signs of improvement after 3-4 days).

Zone 9 & 10: Skin Sensitivities or Allergies

Acne on the thighs and upper legs often comes up as a reaction to body lotions, shower gels, laundry detergent, fabric softener or dryer sheets. On the lower legs, there is the added factor of ingrown hair post-shaving or waxing. It’s best treated with a body wash that has salicylic acid (BHA) or glycolic acid (AHA) and a light, non-comedogenic moisturizer.

Zone 11 & 12: Nervous and Digestive Systems

This is the most common body area for acne and frequent reasons include allergies, excessive sweating, not showering after exercise, friction from athletic gear, clothes that are too tight and not breathable, backpack straps, irritation because of hair or body care products, reaction to laundry detergent, fabric softener or dryer sheets. If you have ruled out all these, evaluate whether your diet is loaded with fried and high calorie foods or you aren’t getting enough sleep… both could be contributing elements.

Zone 13 & 14: Digestive System

There are usually three reasons for acne to show up on the buttocks: underwear that’s dirty, not breathable or too tight; excessively dry skin; and poor diet or digestion, with too many cold drinks and too much spicy food. So if the zits don’t subside despite moisturizing your skin, wearing loose cotton clothes and keeping everything clean, start evaluating your dietary habits.

So the next time you break out on the back or shoulders, look to your body map: your skin is probably trying to communicate on behalf of the internal organs. However, do remember that, as with all medical issues, it is always best to see your doctor or dermotologist for a proper prognosis. I am not a doctor or a medical practitioner and this is just a general guide to head you off in the right investigative direction – just becuase you break out on the stomach doesn’t always mean you have high blood sugar!

June Beauty Must Haves: Things You Need to Own this Month

With the hundreds of beauty products launching every month, it’s not easy knowing exactly which skin serum, nail polish or perfume you should spend your hard-earned cash on. Let me take the guesswork out of beauty shopping for you with a short list of The-Beauty-Gypsy-approved absolute must-haves.

Aesop-Marimekko Sauna Duet

june-beauty-aesop-marimekkoWhat happens when a fabulous Australian beauty brand joins hands with a Finnish textile giant? You get a refreshing, limited edition body scrub and body balm duo all wrapped up in a beautiful Marimekko-designed Vellamo print cotton bag. Perfect for getting your skin in tip-top shape this summer! $75

Crabtree & Evelyn Somerset Meadow

june-beauty-crabtree-somerset-meadowDescribed as ‘an aromatic impression of a beautiful English landscape in bloom’, Somerset Meadow has a fruity-floral fragrance laced with greenness. It’s replete with sparkling bergamot, dew-kissed blackberry buds, the bitter greens of ivy and fern, white blossoms, water lily, earthy geranium, creamy clouds of musk, willow and moss… a very pretty scent whose sweetness is evident without being overwhelming. In fact, this is actually an almost-clean fragrance on me once it settles – just the way I want a summer bath-time ritual to feel like. $18 upwards

Tatcha Gold Collection

june-beauty-tatcha-goldVictoria Tsai built Tatcha by studying the closely guarded beauty secrets passed down through generations of Japanese geishas. Her latest addition is the Tatcha Gold Collection, an homage to the first geisha she ever met, who would scratch gold flecks from her papers and rub them onto her lips for added glow. In her honor, Tsai has created a camellia-based beauty oil and lip balm that’s laced with gold leaf from Kyoto. Tsai recommends applying the Camellia Beauty Oil to the face just after washing, and to the hair from the middle to the tips, avoiding the roots. Camellia Beauty Oil, $125, and Camellia Nourishing Lip Balm, $36

Kama Ayurveda Pure Sandalwood Water

june-beauty-kama-sandalwoodThis Ayurveda-inspired brand is gradually taking over the world, cutting a swathe through luxe resorts and spas (including Aman Bagh, Aman Kora, The Four Seasons Hotel Maldives and The Mandarin Oriental New York). It’s latest offering: Pure steam-distilled sandalwood water that has a whole lot of uses. Sandalwood water is prescribed in Ayurveda as a natural astringent, which is both refreshing and hydrating. It also has antiseptic and anti-inflammatory properties. However, to me, the greatest benefit is its harmonizing and calming effect on the tensions and stresses of daily living. Surround yourself in its cooling vapors during hot and chaotic summer afternoons; spray the water at night to calm the nervous and circulatory system, relax your mind and ensure a sound sleep. $16 / INR 825 for 200ml

Clarins HydraQuench Cream Mask

june-beauty-clarinsOne to ponder: did you know that the vital statistics for perfectly moisturised skin are 80-70-13? Which means that you need 80% water in the dermis, 70% in the epidermis and 13% in the horny layer? Drop below these percentages and skin will look more drab than fab. Which is why Clarins has reformulated the new HydraQuench Cream-Mask with two types of Hyaluronic Acid for a serious moisture hit. Bid goodbye to dry and tight skin for good! $40

Fresh Sugar Shine Lip Treatment

june-beauty-freshI unashamedly confess to being in love with everything Fresh – especially their sugar-tinged balms that are spiked with plumping blackcurrant oil, antioxidant-rich grapeseed polyphenols, and vitamins A, C, and E. And just when I thought the brand had exhausted the possibility of lip-based innovations, it’s come up with the Sugar Shine Lip Treatment. Billed as a shine-enhancer, rather than a gloss, the nourishing formula bolstered by cupuaçu and mango butters goes on velvety smooth, without any trace of stickiness – a God-send for lip lacquering. The familiar faintly citrus scent of the original balms is also present, as is the signature blend of reparative oils. I am already stocking up! $18.50

Aerin Seashell Collection

june-beauty-aerinJust in time for summer, Aerin has launched this beautiful new collection, guaranteed to keep you looking bronzed and beautiful. The makeup is divine, incorporating a sophisticated neutrals palette, illuminating bronzer, natural lipsticks and shiny glosses. But it’s the Beach Cream for Hair & Body that’s the true pièce de résistance, adding a super-subtle shimmer to both tresses and skin. Plus, there is the delicious floral scent. It’s already tucked away in my suitcase, ready to go. $45

Alber Elbaz for Lancôme

june-beauty-lancomeSometimes a girl needs something to brighten up a morning makeup routine. Enter Alber Elbaz’s whimsical new Lancôme makeup line: the packaging is super-cute and who doesn’t love the way Mr Elbaz has the ability to make everything seem fun and approachable? In an interview with WWD, Elbaz explained why he chose eyes as the focus of his makeup debut: “Once I was in a fancy place where there was this group of people that were all shining. The shoes were shining, the hair was shining, the skin, watches and diamonds — but the eyes were not shining. I thought if I were to do a project I would love to do a ‘happy eye’ project to make the eyes shine.” Happy eyes! How cute is he? $29 upwards

Estee Lauder Double Wear Stay-in-Place Powder Makeup SPF 10

june-beauty-estee-lauder-foundationThis compact powder foundation is perfect for creating a flawless, semi-matte finish that lasts all day. It’s chockfull of oil-free, oil-controlling ingredients that have serious all-day staying power, even through heat and humidity. Added bonus: it now comes in even more shades than before. $44INR 2,535

Body Shop Colour Crush Collection

june-beauty-body-shopStriking neutrals, chic nudes, rich browns, fierce pinks, powerful purples, brilliant blues and gorgeous greens… The Body Shop has travelled the world to source rare pigments, triple-filtered and expertly milled them, then blended them with community fair trade oils to create a brilliant and deeply pigmented base for their new Colour Crush eyeshadows. The result? Raw colour, maximum impact and a truly fashion-forward palette of mono eyeshadows in a full array of the season’s must-have stand-out shades. $10INR 695

Butter London Pitter Patter

Butter-London-Pitter-PatterAfter Waity Katie and No More Waity, Katie, there is now a limited edition shade for the royal baby-to-be: Pitter Patter. The polish was named after an expression used by doting grannies hoping for grandchildren: “Will we hear the pitter patter of little feet soon?”. I was secretly hoping the shade would give us a slight hint to the baby’s sex (bright pink!), but the gorgeous aubergine shimmer could go either way. $15

Givenchy Dahlia Noir L’eau fragrance

june-beauty-givenchyThere’s really nothing that beats the aromatic appeal of waltzing through a lush garden, except perhaps bottling up all those fresh elements into a gorgeous perfume – like Givenchy’s latest fragrance by Dahlia Noir. Bursting with sunshine and freshness, it’s a delicate yet sophisticated floral scent of citrus and musky top notes. It’s what I am spritzing on every day – this is true love. $90£42.75

Moschino Cheap & Chic

june-beauty-moschinoDespite all the grand and complex perfume that I own, sometimes nothing hits the spot like one of Moschino’s zesty Cheap & Chic fragrances. The latest bottle, Chic Petals, showcases a red and white colour scheme in the classical quirky shape of Popeye cartoon character Olive Oyl. With top notes of strawberry, pomegranate and ginger and middle notes of orchid and iris, this is one sparkly and fun fragrance that will see you through the summer months in true Cheap & Chic style. $48 upwards

Diptyque Candle in Jonquille

june-beauty-diptyqueThis spring-scented candle’s fresh, floral aroma literally smells like a bouquet of daffodils, freshly picked from what I imagine was some glorious garden in the French countryside. $60

Nest White Narcisse Classic Candle

june-beauty-nestThe perfect way of bringing home the French countryside – complete with mimosa, jasmine, narcissus, and sandalwood – all wrapped up in stunning sculptural glass. This candle is terrific for illuminating alfresco dinner parties or creating a soft glow for private reflections. $48

The Ultimate Beauty Bucket List

It’s been more than a month since my b’day and the husband still has to “find” a gift that’s “good enough” for his nagging precious wife. Or, in straightforward con language husband-speak, he forgot. Remembered the b’day (which could be because I reminded him of it every 30 seconds) but forgot that even decade-old relationships need a gift if you don’t want a very pissed off wife. Which is exactly what I am at the moment… completely and totally pissed off. So, in a placatory move, he has now asked me to draw up a wish list of everything that my heart desires. And he will (hopefully!) set about fulfilling it from top to bottom. Hence: presenting the Beauty Bucket List. Give me 25% of these goodies and I will be a happy, non-pissed woman :)

Many, many weeks at a spa resort

beauty-bucket-listDays packed with soul and body-soothing massages, indulgent walks through fragrant gardens, shunting out all the baggage of toxic living, languorous swims in sunny pools, crisp white linen sheets, sparkling juices blended to perfection, light-as-air spa cuisine, the rare sounds of silence… what’s not to love about a spa retreat? And about sinking into it’s fuzzy embrace for a few weeks, where you switch off from the rest of the world? And get glowing skin, drop those pesky excess pounds and detoxify at the same time?

Lessons in how to do up my hair

beauty-bucket-list-2I can rock a super-graphic eyeliner, work a bright red lipstick and illuminate, shade or contour within seconds. I can even mix different perfumes to create my own concoction. But what I simply can’t do is a great updo. Call me lazy – or cursed with super-weak hands – but I just can’t do anything to my hair besides taming the frizz and ironing it poker straight. Time to step it up a notch, me thinks!

A bespoke perfume by Roja Dove or Guerlain

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This has been a lifelong dream: a signature scent made specially for me, to my specification, with my favorite notes. Especially if it’s by Roja Dove or Guerlain. Let’s see what it would include… hefty doses of sandalwood, jasmine and lavender, a little bit of blood orange and lemon verbena, some vetiver, a touch of leather… well, this is clearly a work in progress. Though with prices starting at €30,000 for a couple of bottles, a bespoke fragrance seems destined to remain a dream for the rest of my life. Even hubbies can’t be guilt tripped to that extent!

A few moments to sit and let my manicure dry completely

beauty-bucket-list-3Half the time my nails go unpolished because I simply don’t have the patience to sit peacefully and watch the paint dry. Do you?

A Brazilian

beauty-bucket-list8Have stayed miles away from this modern beauty staple because of the pain factor. Maybe it’s time to experiment. And be able to wear a bikini for playing beach volleyball at least once. Actually, scratch that. It’s my beauty bucket list… not a gift for the-man-who-forgot-all-about-my-gift!

A visit to the perfume museum at Versailles

beauty-bucket-list-5As you can see, perfume is clearly a major theme in my life. So, how can I not put the Osmothèque perfume museum and conservatory located in Versailles on my Beauty Bucket List? This splendid place preserves and restores old fragrance formulas, allowing anyone – professional perfumers and passionate perfume lovers – to study an impressive collection of fragrances. Only at the Osmothèque can you smell the exhilarating promise of the original Chanel No. 5 or sigh over the gourmand decadence of Parfums de Rosine Le Fruit Défendu, which was created by Coco Chanel’s greatest rival, fashion designer Paul Poiret.

Lessons at the Santa Maria Novella Farmacia

beauty-bucket-list-6The Santa Maria Novella Farmacia is the oldest still-operating pharmacy in the world, though today its offerings are more of the perfumes, floral waters and mimosa creams kind. It dates from 1221, when Dominican monks started making balms, salves and medicines for their infirmary. Today the Florentine pharmacy still calls upon the traditional preparation methods and recipes for its wares – including the legendary Acqua della Regina water that was exclusively designed for Catherine de Medici. It’s even housed in the extraordinary original building, which is replete with vaulted ceilings, ornate gilding, frescoes, walnut cabinetry, glass-stoppered decanters full of colorful potions, stained glass windows, bronze statues, and antique apothecary scales and mortars.

But what interests me even more is the adjacent building and it’s old medicinal herb garden, where the actual pharmacy products are made. Local ingredients are used whenever possible and each batch is hand made according to age old recipes and artisanal methods. This is where I want to spend a few days, studying and working along side these beauty artisans. I want. I want. I want. I want!

Totally different hair color

beauty-bucket-list-7I love experimenting with my hair color… as long as the experiment remains within the confines of my hair salon. Many a hair dresser has despaired after giving me luscious red/pink/dip-dyed/purple locks, only to have me chicken out at the last moment and go back to the coffee brown shade that I have had since forever! Though, come to think of it, I haven’t seen my natural hair color for the last 10 years, so maybe that’s the one that would make for the most drastic change!

Extended stay in Baden-Baden

beauty-bucket-list-8Scarcely has there been a town that blends together culture, glamour and wellness in such equal servings. Once the playing ground of Sisi – my favorite Empress – Germany’s Baden-Baden was the summer capital of Europe during the belle époque. Soon, it also became the world’s most renown spa town, attracting the rich and the beautiful (including Tolstoy, Dostoevsky, Tchaikovsky and Queen Victoria), who were attracted by the chance to rejuvenate, recuperate or flirt with the roulette wheel. I want to go there largely for the “taking the waters” – hot springs that well up from a depth of 2,000 metres, supplying the town’s 12 thermal spas – though the glittering casino, legendary museums and surrounding vistas of the Black Forest are tantalising enough in their own right.

What about you? What’s on your Beauty Bucket List? Time to send out a message to the universe about all the scrumptious, gorgeous beauty stuff you want in your life