Dancing in the Rain… These are a Few of My Favorite Things!

To me, there is nothing more beautiful than the first rain showers of the season. I love seeing the skies turn ever darker, woolly grey clouds sweeping out over the coast, sea waters turning choppier by the second, the breeze picking up and swirling away all the summer dust, tall palm trees swaying against the storm, dramatic streaks of lightning linking the heavens to the earth and, finally, those sparkly, shimmery, silvery drops of rain falling on my face and hands and hair… is there anything in the world that’s more beautiful, more soothing, more refreshing?

monsoon 2This is the time to sit on an open terrace, drinking jasmine tea (or a masala chai if you are in Mumbai, my homeland) and eating onion fritters. Or maybe sipping a tall flute of chilled Prosecco and feasting on olives and parmesan as nature plays out it’s most amazing spectacle all around. Touching and feeling the raindrops on your skin, hearing the wind and thunder swirling around in abandon and seeing a bright summer afternoon transform into a dark and shadowy twilight zone. This is the time to be on your own, with your own thoughts – not amidst the clamour of crowds. It’s the time to reflect, to clear your mind, to resolve the past and plan the future. It’s the time to let the rain showers clear away those innermost cobwebs just as they are wiping the slate clean for nature’s panorama.

It’s definitely not the time to worry about your clothes getting wet. Or your mascara flowing away. Or even your hair frizzing to double its size. There are enough days in the year when we need to worry about our style quotient… let monsoon be the time out when you can just be yourself. When you want to dance through the rains as they soak right through to the skin. When you laugh with abandon and experience the pure, unadulterated joy of being one with nature and not having a care in the world.

Try it once… you will never go back. Trust me on this, I speak from experience!

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What about you? What’s your favorite memory of the monsoon?


Muguets for May Day… Courtesy Guerlain

Amongst the many, many enchanting things about France (anyone who knows me, knows that I am an obsessive Francophile!) is the tradition of giving beautiful muguet (lily of the valley) bouquets to loved ones on the first day of May. The tradition began on May 1st, 1561, when King Charles IX of France was presented with muguet flowers as a good luck charm. History does not remember who gave this perfumed gift but the king loved the idea so much that he started presenting muguet bouquets to the ladies of his court on May 1st every year.

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And that’s not all: another ancient European tradition of ”bals de muguet” dances allowed a rare chance for young boys and girls to mingle without having to get parents’ permission (which could be an arduous task in those days). At these dances, the girls would dress in pure virginal white, while the boys would wear a sprig of muguet in their buttonhole.

By the 1900s, it became traditional for French men to present muguet flowers to their sweethearts. Hence, the day came to be affectionately nicknamed La Fête du Muguet (Lily of the Valley Day) even though the official moniker is La Fête du Travail (Labor Day).

Nowadays muguet flowers are not just about romance – they are also given as good luck charms or tokens of appreciation between close friends and family members. And if you want to make this day truly special for someone, Guerlain has the perfect answer: a very limited Muguet 2013 perfume, bottled in a quadrilobé bottle whose design dates from 1908.

The gorgeous flacon is embellished with a delicately embossed paper image created by Créanog, a creative studio specialising in paper sculptures. A spring green thread encircles the bottle, which is further embellished with a golden Guerlain seal. The fragrance itself contains the ‘bright green notes’ of lily of the valley, with added heart notes of rose, jasmine and lilac.

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The cost? $575 / £355 for 60ml.

The exclusivity factor? Guerlain Muguet 2013 is a limited edition of only 1,349 numbered pieces worldwide.

Now, I might not actually be French but my birthday falls just two days after May Day. So, just in case anyone is wondering what to get me for a gift… :)

Can silk pillowcases save your skin (and hair)?

Ok, now that we have established that I am not high maintenance – just extremely practical – let me explain why I need to sleep on silk. It’s not because of the luscious, cool, glam, makes-me-feel-like-a-queen factor but because the skin needs silk. Why?

Silk & Skin

  • silk-beauty-benefitsSilk is the nearest thing to human skin. It contains 18 of the essential proteins that are found in our skin and even has the same pH, making it a potent ally against premature ageing.
  • The creamy fabric contains natural cellular albumen fibre, which helps boost cellular regeneration – again protecting skin against ageing and dullness.
  • Unlike cotton (which is very absorbent), silk does not soak up the natural moisture from our skin. The result? Better hydration, improved skin elasticity and lesser wrinkles. Similarly, it doesn’t absorb the beauty creams and serums that we put on at night, allowing them to stay on longer and work more efficiently.
  • Silk sheets and pillows offer a smoother surface for the face, so we don’t wake up with the crease marks that are common with other fabrics.
  • Silk is a natural heat regulator – it maintains body temperature and does not conduct heat or static electricity. So, it helps retain heat on cold nights and keeps us cool in the summer. Hence, better beauty sleep!

Silk & Hair

  • Sleeping on silk can help prevent hair from thinning… really! Cotton fabrics may seem soft but they cause friction –  gripping and tugging at our strands as we move in our sleep, thereby leading to hair breakage and split ends. Silk, on the hand, is much smoother, so hair simply slides over the surface however much you toss and turn. The result? Less tangling or breakage. Added bonus? A blow dry will last much longer.
  • Since silk traps less body heat than other fabrics, we wake up sans frizzy strands or a messy bed head.

So, now, isn’t it worth it? And since you undoubtedly agree, can you please drop a line to my husband in the comments below, explaining why that credit card splurge was completely worth it?

What You (Still) Don’t Know About Sunscreen

Did you know that skin actually starts to thicken itself as a form of defence against sun damage? And that leads to a thick layer of dead skin cells that clogs pores, creates zits and makes the complexion seem totally dull and lifeless? Despite having been a Beauty Editor and writing this blog, where I have preached about sunscreen often enough, this was something that had totally escaped my knowledge.

Which led me to thinking what else remains unknown or unnoticed about the subject and I have been making calls to experts ever since. Some of the information might leave you surprised as well.

  • sunscreenPeople who wait 2.5 hours to reapply sunscreen instead of 2 hours have a five times greater chance of burning.
  • Sunscreens usually expire after a year. The active ingredients break down, especially when exposed to heat (like in your car or a day bag), which not only gives you less protection but might also cause an adverse reaction on your skin. How to tell if your sunscreen has gone bad? Look out for an abnormal consistency (too thick or too thin), grittiness or separation of the layers.
  • A classic white T-shirt averages a UPF (ultraviolet protection factor) of 7. A long-sleeved dark denim shirt, on the other hand, offers a UPF of about 1,700. On the same lines, unbleached cotton contains special pigments — lignins — that absorb UV rays. Similarly, some silks and polyesters reflect radiation, hence protecting skin against the sun.
  • People with dark skin still need sunscreen as the deepest melanin only rates an SPF 2 protection from UVB rays. It offers no protection against UVA rays or free radicals.
  • 90% of wrinkles are caused by sun exposure. So that means if you adequately protect yourself from the sun, you will have less wrinkles.
  • Your risk for skin cancer increases every time you peel. Five sunburns doubles your risk for melanoma.
  • Some of the ingredients used in today’s sunscreens – like rice bran extracts, jasmine, and lupine extract – are actually ancient Egyptian discoveries. Gamma oryzanol extracted from rice bran has UV-absorbing properties, jasmine helps mend skin damage and lupine extract lightens the skin.

Accessory Thursday: Remembering Lilly Pulitzer

Last week, while we were busy mourning the death of Margaret Thatcher, another woman who changed the course of history passed away quietly. Lilly Pulitzer – one of my all-time favorite designers – breathed her last at the age of 81-years. Synonymous with pretty prints and bright hues, Lilly did not just create clothes… she crafted an entire lifestyle that I have been in love with for years and years. As have millions of other women across the world (are you one of us?).

From wanting a printed dress to mask the stains and splashes of her juice stand to becoming a favorite of Jackie Kennedy’s, Lilly not only defined the whole “Palm Beach” lifestyle, she also showed what is possibly the first “resort collection” of all times. Her story is an integral part of fashion history and her legacy lives on in chic and cheerful prints that still make us wonder why we never learnt how to play cricket and where the white gloved butler has put our martinis. Here’s the story of this iconic designer in 10 points.

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A selection of signature Lilly Pulitzer prints

1. Born into a prominent family of New York, Lilly McKim attended all the right schools before eloping in 1952, at age 21, with newspaper scion Peter Pulitzer. The couple moved to Palm Beach, where Peter operated a successful citrus grove business.

2. Lilly soon became the epicenter of Palm Beach entertaining and was renown for ”not giving a whit”. For her, comfort always trumped trends and playing by the rules was “boring”. In fact, she considered both shoes and underwear to be a nuisance and would go on to line her Lilly shifts with muslin to encourage women to go au naturel.

3. But by 1958, the sunniness had begun to fade. “I had terrible anxiety attacks,” Lilly told W Magazine, “so I went to the nuthouse.” The nuthouse was a psychiatric hospital in Westchester County, New York. She returned home armed with one piece of medical advice: get a hobby.

Lilly Pulitzer for Estee Lauder Gift Set Spring 2013

Lilly Pulitzer for Estee Lauder Gift Set Spring 2013

4. Peter suggested that she start selling his oranges. And Lilly promptly set up a juice stand. To disguise the inevitable juice stains on her clothing she had sleeveless dresses made from colorful fabrics found at the five-and-dime. The dresses were “colorful and cotton and cool,” with slits up the sides for bending over – and they were also available for sale at the juice stand for $25.

5. The town went wild over the dresses and soon Lilly was flying regularly to Key West, where she created the prints along with a couple who owned a textile business. Within a year she was shipping orders to retailers from Lord & Taylor and Saks Fifth Avenue. Her vividly flowered shift dresses became known, in the shorthand of the rich, simply as Lillys.

6. The unlikely designer’s fame was further cemented a year later, when first lady Jackie Kennedy appeared in Life magazine wearing the Lilly Pulitzer classic shift (while most of the dresses cost about $25, Lilly charged Kennedy $75 for hers, “because that was made out of very expensive curtain fabric.”).

7. Ms. Pulitzer’s first marriage did not last – she divorced Mr. Pulitzer, shocking their friends and married Enrique Rousseau (who had worked for her first husband) in 1969 – but the business took off. What started off as a juice stand uniform had created a look that proved to be so popular it would become a mark of membership for old-money families at play for more than five decades.

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CFDA “You Can’t Fake Fashion” 2013 tote by Lilly Pulitzer

8. The signature Lilly palette featured (and continues to feature) lime green palm trees, bursting sunflowers and sky blue shells – the flavors of a Florida vacation. Told by one retailer that she had to start making Fall clothes, the designer replied, “Oh, but you don’t understand, it’s always summer somewhere.” Thus she introduced what just may have been one of the first resort collections – a year-round summery lineup that grew to include men’s, children’s and swimwear.

9. By the early ’80s, however, the working-girl wardrobe and a neutral palette had taken over fashion; sales were flagging, and Lilly shut the whole thing down in 1984.

10. Then in 1993, Lilly was visited by businessmen James Bradbeer Jr. and Scott Beaumont, who were keen to revive the label. The designer sold the Lilly Pulitzer license to the pair’s company, Sugartown Worldwide. Borne on a generational shift where young women were eager for the Lilly Pulitzer snappy prints and flatter-every-shape frocks, the revived label gradually re-found its footing, especially  in the months after 9/11 – a time when people wanted something happy and optimistic. Today, the company is well entrenched in the 21st century ethos, with more office-friendly wrap dresses and blouses, fragrances, stationery and eyewear.

Lilly Pulitzer with a model

Lilly Pulitzer with a model